One of the most frequent questions we receive at Asian Black Couples from Black men is, “Where can I meet Asian women?” We previously published posts on Where To Meet Asian Women and Six Steps For Black Men To Date Asian Women which gives our top ideas on places, activities, and the mindset for meeting and dating Asian women. We also published posts on The Top 15 US Cities for BMAW Dating, The Top Crowdsourced Global Cities for Asian and Black Dating, and The Top Asian Dating Sites. We highly recommend checking out all of these posts.
We also hear from many Black men and Asian women in successful relationships who are always encouraged to find a site like Asian Black Couples. Most times I will ask them how they met, and interestingly, lately I’m finding a lot of Blasian couples who met in online dating sites. While I personally prefer to meet Asian women offline, I have also met some very nice Asian women online in the past, and I’m happy to see more Black men meeting Asian women online.
In our prior post, The Top Asian Dating Sites, we go into a lot of detail on Asian dating sites and how best to leverage them. It’s a long article, but it’s worth reading if you have not done so. In this post, we will assume you have read all the cautions from the prior post and we will go straight to our top 3 Asian dating site recommendations for Black men. In all 3 cases, we only recommend these sites when you are ready to be serious about finding a long term relationship or marriage. The Asian women on these sites are looking for long term serious relationships leading to marriage. If you are not ready for a serious relationship, these are not the best dating sites for you. If you only want a casual relationship, first realize that most Asian women do not date casually, so you will likely have a hard time trying to find Asian women to date you casually. For casual dating, you should try Tinder, Plenty of Fish, OKCupid, or some of the Facebook groups instead, which are all free and more oriented to casual relationships. Our recommended dating sites are for Black men who are serious about finding love and we have seen many Black men find their wives on these sites.
Top 3 Best Asian Dating Sites For Black Men
1. Filipino Cupid
As men, on most dating sites, you are accustomed to sending out lots of messages to women you are interested in and then receiving maybe a handful of responses back from the women. That rule of thumb does not apply at Filipino Cupid. More than any other dating site that we know, lots of Black men have been very successful at Filipino Cupid and have found their wife or fiance there. All of the Black men that we know who have used Filipino Cupid have had tons of responses from Filipina women on the site – sometimes even too many responses, including responses from women you never contacted. You really have to be focused on your requirements and needs on Filipino Cupid because there are lots of beautiful Filipinas on this site and it’s easy to get distracted if you are not hyper-focused on finding the qualities you need in a woman. Filipina woman on this site are serious about finding a good man and they are not shy about reaching out to you first. True, there will be a few scamsters looking for money or a green card that you have to sort through, but the majority of the women are genuine, honest, real, and looking to find their soul mate. Black men of all ages are successful here which is not always the case on other sites. Also don’t forget to look for Filipinas located in the US, Canada, or elsewhere in North America or Latin America, if you want to find someone closer than the Philippines. If you think you might be compatible with Filipina women, Filipino Cupid is a serious no brainer, just do it.
2. Cherry Blossoms
Cherry Blossoms is the granddaddy of Asian dating sites and has been around since 1974, starting first as a magazine and then converting to a website. They have been around for this long because their system really works, and many Black men have been successful with Cherry Blossoms. With Cherry Blossoms, you will find a wide variety of Asian women. The top places for the Cherry Blossoms women are China, Philippines, Korea, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, and Malaysia, but indeed you will find women from all over Asia here. The other nice thing about Cherry Blossoms is their pricing which typically is a little less expensive than the other sites, making it very affordable in most cases. Cherry Blossoms also has good immigration support based on their many years of experience if you need that service. Similar to Filipino Cupid, I have seen Black men of all ages do well at Cherry Blossoms. If you want to explore a wider variety of Asian women with a very reputable and proven Asian dating site, Cherry Blossoms is your place to go.
Special Note: Cherry Blossoms, which already offers very affordable pricing, is currently offering a special price available to all ABC readers. Click on the Cherry Blossoms link, register for a free account and the special price for a 30 day membership should appear. This special pricing is for the 1 month membership only and is the lowest price I have ever seen for their service. Their normal pricing is already good, but the special pricing for 30 days is a no-brainer. Just do it!
3. Japan Cupid
Last, but not least, I’m seeing a number of younger (20s and 30s) Black men doing well at Japan Cupid, which is owned by the same company that owns Filipino Cupid. You will not be swarmed by women at Japan Cupid the way you will be at some other Asian dating sites, but there are many beautiful quality Japanese women looking for love there. Japan has many differences from the west, some would say oddities, in their social and dating scene, so it really helps to know as much about Japanese culture as possible if you use Japan Cupid. Despite Japan otherwise being a technology leader as a country, dating sites are still gaining acceptance in Japan, which I think is part of why younger guys seem to do better there. Japan is not a poor country, so that really changes the whole dynamic on Japan Cupid. Many of the Japanese women there will have either spent some time in the US or Europe, and will speak very decent, if not fluent English. While the majority of the Japan Cupid women will be Japanese, you will also see some Chinese, Filipino, and Korean women there trying to get away from the intense competition on the Chinese and Filipino sites in particular. For younger Black guys who like Japanese women and can deal with the differences in Japanese culture, Japan Cupid is the way to go.
So these are the top 3 Asian dating sites for Black men today based on my many interactions with Asian and Black couples. What about other Asian dating sites or general dating sites. Well in our prior post on top Asian dating sites, we recommended 7 dating sites – these three, plus four other sites – and we still stand by all 7 of those recommended sites, but if we have to narrow it down to sites where we have seen Black men be most successful, the 3 sites mentioned above are the absolute best of the best. Frankly outside of the previously recommended 7 Asian dating sites, it gets real sketchy real fast, and we are not comfortable recommending any other Asian dating sites at this time. There are sites that we previously recommended, that we no longer recommend due to the quality of these websites dropping over time. We are always listening to our readers feedback and we will let you know though if we find other reputable Asian dating sites with large numbers of Black men being successful.
Regarding general dating sites, they are hit or miss from our perspective. Yes, you hear of some Black men doing well on general dating sites, but by and large, I hear more disappointing stories than encouraging stories about Black men and the general dating sites. Sometimes I do hear from Asian American women who only date Black men that they have joined one of the Black dating sites to find guys in the past, but again, it’s very hit or miss, and generally I would not recommend joining a Black dating site in hopes that Asian women will find you there. Generally most Asian American women tell me they don’t have any problems meeting Black men. I also hear of some Black men being successful finding Asian women with smart phone apps and social media sites. It all comes down to just finding the right person in the right place at the right time.
Good luck to everyone!